Care Group for Aggrieved Partners (cgfap)

Welcome to cgfap a website dedicated to help you at this very difficult time, we have made the site easy for you to find your way around.
It is designed to keep its content to the minimum, dealing with specific issues only, links are added should you need more in depth information.
Our aim is to help you get back on track in the fastest possible time, with the minimum of fuss.
John McConnell

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"From the moment your partner leaves you, it will almost certainly turn your world upside down and inside out...

What to do and where to turn to for help?

These are the first things that will keep spinning through your mind...

It can take up to several months before managing to get an appointment with a solicitor, then mediation, legal aid and finally getting it into court, In all that time if children are involved you may be denied contact...

--- precious time that can never be regained...---

"But it need not take that long"

At cgfap we are here to help you, the service we offer is simple and free.

but best of all a response that is almost instantaneous, helping you to see your way forward with a clear mind...

We are not miracle workers and do NOT pretend to be, but we are here to listen and offer our support and guidance where possible. We are not qualified professionals but we have the experience and a wealth of knowledge and support from other organisations...

We are building fast and changing daily, as more and more people are coming forward sharing their grief. Together we will reach a greater understanding for a better future within the family courts system...

"your situation is not as unique as you think..."

the old saying is...

"If only I knew then, what I know now."

At cgfap that is what we are giving you...

"Next years knowledge...today"

At cgfap we believe that our service should extend beyond those early days, it may be your partner is still causing problems years on, or the grief you are suffering is caused by someone other than an ex partner.

we have also included personal experience stories written by people just like you, so you can understand that there are many others suffering the same heartaches as yourself.

In addition to all this we have our community forum, it is simple to access and free to use, from here you can ask as many questions as you like and you will always receive a warm welcome and a friendly reply...

At present we are experiencing difficulties with our forum, however we have a secondary forum set up to quickly deal with your problems.
please click on the community logo to access it.

this is the link to our community... just click on the logo to enter, then follow the simple instructions to register, you will need the unique code 661944 This is an open forum area for discussion, where you can freely talk about your problems or listen to others and maybe offer advice from your own experiences, although moderated, we believe that everybody has the right to free speech, here you can also use the personal message system or e mail to contact other members...

All truth passes through three stages.
First, it is ridiculed.
Second, it is violently opposed.
Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.
Arthur Schopenhauer
German philosopher (1788 - 1860)

We are not an extremist group, we are about numbers. Our growth depends on people becoming supporters of cgfap, this can include all of the immediate family as they too, suffer from the break up of a relationship... A group with supporters of one million carries more weight than one hundred.

Our goal is not to destroy the system but demand that changes be made to make it work the way it was intended. Most of us are already suffering from the vindictive attitude of our partners, our intentions are to make the animosity stop.

For more info contact john.cgfap@ntlworld.com

We need to reach out to all those that do not have the benefit of the internet and the information available online...
maybe you can help by representing your area.